December loading, are you ready? For people this side of the Sahara, December is the time of year where you catch up with family, book holidays, attend weddings and any other festivities. Most of the time, we are ready for the enjoyment but not fully prepared. Here are some tips on how to get in synch with the holiday season…
December on lock, plan like a pro
As a famous Kenyan poet once said ” sipangwingwi”. If you don’t have a plan for the holiday, you will find yourself in people’s plans and part of agenda’s you did not ask to be in. Plan like a pro and take time to figure out what your budget it, what your travel plans are and where to, book tickets early (if you haven’t already😲 ) and makes sure to figure out what you need to pack for if you are going out of town. This podcast by Luvvie Ajayi gives great tips on how to pack for travel.
Unplug from work
Remote working has created the false idea that you should always be online and available. I disagree, Take time to figure out when you will be out of office and for how long. During this time, make sure your out of office messages are on and switch off from work mode to relaxation mode. Make it clear that you will not be taking calls between the dates that you are away. Leave work at work and enjoy your holiday.
Set an intention
How do you want to spend your time during the holiday period. What will be your primary focus, you can pick a word and roll with it. Here are a few words you can use as a guide: “family & friends”, ” enjoyment and relaxation” “reflection and restoration”. Doing this will help you figure out what is most important in terms of time and energy during this holiday season.
Go with the flow
So December loading but if things don’t go according to plan as they often do, go with the flow. Don’t let an itinerary get in the way of you enjoying time spent with friends and family. Basically don’t sweat the small stuff.
Schedule some me-time
Being around people during holidays all the time can be hectic especially for introverts and ambiverts. You will need time to recharge those batteries so you don’t end up feeling tired and depleted. Carve out a little time to read a book, go on a solo stroll, listen to music or book a massage.
Make the most of your time
Be present. It’s easy to tune out and stay staring at a screen during gatherings. Try switching off and actually being present with your loved ones. Be an active listener, volunteer to help out with prep or play with the nieces and nephews, it will make your holiday much richer and memorable.
Give back
Tis the season to give but this time do it intentionally. Instead of giving old clothing or just signing a check, maybe take time to find out what your local children’s home really needs at this point and time. If you can, rope in some friends and organise a drive or event to help them reach their goals. Check out CupofUji on Instagram.